Almost every first year student of relativity comes up with the same question. It is so common, it has a special name. It is called "The Twin Paradox". Now the official story is that this is a non-issue. It is not a
contradiction or even a paradox (though one could actually call it a paradox in any case). It has been believed for nearly 100 years that relativity is a self consistent theory, but is that assessment true?
First, let's do a quick review:
Imagine there are two astronauts floating by each other in space. One imagines himself to be at rest and the other going by at some velocity v. The other one imagines that he is at rest and the first one is going by at velocity -v. Now according to relativity,only relative velocity exists, therefore both of the observers are correct. This has to be so, otherwise there would have to be some preferencial velocity which would allow them to determine who had the "real" velocity, or if it was distributed between them in some way. Now I have been calling this property 'reciprocity' which means simply that each observer can consider himself to be at rest.
In the twin paradox, one twin leaves earth at a very high speed until he gets to some distant planet. He then decides to return home at a high speed. And this is the basic scenario. The problem arises when we try and determine the
time that each twin sees the other one experience according to relativity. According to the stay-at-home twin, the travelling twin ages less,both leaving and returning (since time dilation is dependent on v2). But the first year student will reasonably consider reciprocity and see that the travelling twin would consider himself to be at rest and he would see the stay-at-home as moving away from him (along with the planet) and then returning back to him, thus according to the travelling twin, the stay-at-home is the one who has aged less. This, of course, is a contradiction since they both can't be younger than the other.
The first response a student would probably
receive on this question is:
(1) The travelling twin cannot view himself as at rest, because he has accelerated during the trip, and which one has accelerated can be determined by noticeable inertial effects.
However, this argument has several problems. First of all, the Lorentz transformations depend on just distance and time. There is no reference to force at all. Thus while the traveling twin might realize that he is accelerating, the Lorentz transformations do not "realize" it. Furthermore, it is the force difference over the body that one feels. If each atom of the object was being accelerated equally, then there would be no (local) way to determine which twin were accelerating. Furthermore, the traveling twin does not know that he will accelerate until he gets to his destination, thus
before that time he clearly sees the stay-at-home aging less. Therefore, the acceleration cannot merely disallow the travelling twin's frame of reference. It must also compensate for the time dilations already observed.
After seeing that this dynamic argument is not sufficient the student might be told that:
(2) Time dilation can only be correctly determined from the point of view of an observer who remains at a constant velocity during the events in question. In other words, you can do the problem in relation to the stay-at-home twin, or you can do it in the frame of reference of the travelling twin while he is leaving, or you can do the problem in the frame of reference of the travelling twin while he is returning, but not both.
This response is inadequate simply because neither of the travelling twin views actually represent the view of the travelling twin over
the entire journey. The twin has to be able to view himself at rest in both frames consecutively. A past history of acceleration cannot disallow the
current inertial frame. If it could, then the Lorentz transformations could never be applied since all bodies have accelerated in the past at some time.
This is an important point and from it one can extrapolate that indeed, even from an accelerating frame the travelling twin must be able to consider
itself to be at rest at every instant of the acceleration.

