MIddle Age & Our Sex Life

Introduction I owe you, Marc an apology. Every once in a while I become excuberent and want to leave the perimeters of our love making. I can't call it just fucking anymore, because to me there's more to it then where we originally started. I could say that you are my low maintenance lover, so low maintenanced, I should never have to complain or worry about twisted wants and dreams, because you NEVER ask!! It's you who needs to remind me that you don't want to do something "fancy." I hope you understand, I wish to please you any way you'de like. So don't become upset when I attempt to go past your boundaries, just remind me. This article is really more about almost reaching the top of the hill (50) and looking at being middle aged. I have found articles and information for the male change of Andropause, Sex, Statistically Speaking, an annotated biblography of books on the subject of: Sexuality In Middle And Later Life, with a bit of information about menaupause,

"...so you kiss." Though there is one thing you can do every once in a while - kiss me! And before you say you don't want to, may I point out that kissing is one of the most primative functions two people can perform, not to mention your lips are made of the same material as your dick, i.e. sensitivity. If you wish to continue playing the "John," I understand. I will leave you with a quote from your own "The Nerd's Guide to Sex" about kissing and pleasing the one your with. "First she might want to kiss, so you kiss. As she gets more excited the kissing will become more passionate. Follow her lead. You don't have to seduce her, just let her seduce herself. Watch her body signals." It's Like Petting Cats - 4th paragraph

Cotton Mouth & Spit... I need fluids!! Last weekend my mouth was so dry and I could hardly swallow, I really had a valid reason for licking your chin, nose and trying to reach your forehead. It wasn't to turn you on as much as to have something wet in my very dry mouth. My mouth goes cotton, after smoking grass, the medication, my age, and may be I'm so turned on its causing dry mouth. Whatever it is, please at least let me lick your face if your sweating. You don't want me to stop you in the middle of screwing and request a drink do you?

Reality Check - HeY I cAn'T Get mY LeG dOwN!! After reading the book on The Big O, and thinking about some of the positions in the book, I realized we simply can't do alot of them. Since our bodies are creaking and letting us know we had better slow down, I tend to forget that you may not be able to do some of the positions and I could get twisted into a pretzel and stay that way. Of course that would humor the EMT's and firemen and be an embarassment for me. :-{ I'd love to be able to wrap my ankles around your neck and a few years ago, I probably could have done that. Now, when we are finished you have to put my leg down from it's up right position because I really can't move it without your help. I forget that I'm a bit more agile then you are as I have to walk and that limbers me up a bit, though not a lot and I don't think your getting out and walking or exercising unless its with me. Being in a couch potato state does stiffen the body a bit. Hey, I'm gulity too, sitting in front of a computer all day does not make for a healthy body and especially at our age. I've had a sore neck for a few weeks now and I don't want my aches and pains to slow us down. I will see you even if I don't feel up to it, because I simply won't accept getting old. It's the Wendy in me, that says I can fly, just as the Peter Pan in you wants to continue being a kid who never grows up.

A MenoPaUsal Moment

Miscellanous Every once in awhile a vagina fart occurs, you laugh; I wondered why and found the answer.